Tag: Think about yourself

Forgive those who insult you for being yourself.

Your words matter a lot but the right words matter most of all.

As Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam said,

People judge your face, not your greatness inside you.

This is soo true

Judgement is very necessary for our life but someone wrong judgement can bring great achievement. Yes, This is not rare for someone who succeed after lot of rejections.

No matter,how much orginal you are… But the matter is today’s world like you to show up as they like you to see.

A simple story I want to share….

This is a story of girl who never want her to give up easily. She never thought this will happen to her life. The girl was belong to middle class family, struggling hard for her family and her future. Fortunately, her relatives are all self made. They were very much established in their own life. Oneday this girl’s family got invitations from a rich family to attend a family ceremon of anniversary . So, the girl’s family reached there. Everyone was very excited, happy. Suddenly, a gentleman unexpectedly ordered the girl to stay away from photography spot because the camera men was making vedio of entire ceremony. The girl was not dressed up in highly fashionable clothes.

Obviously, the girl was completely disappointed to understand the scenario.
She did that time as she had been ordered to stay back. She promised herself that she would never be there unless she self-made,unless she become someone who can effort high demand lifestyle.

After 10 years, the girl got appointed in a merchant company where she became the General Manager after 5 years of relentless hard work.

Oneday she got an invitation. The ceremony of anniversary, this time was quite different.
The girl again dressed up very simple way as she like always. She looked pretty beautiful.
This time, the gentleman called her to  join with them in the time of photo session. But she refused and said, “I am sorry, sir.I am not well dressed like your standard. It can make you feel insulted. Today, I came here to appreciate you for what you did that day. So, Thank you”. Then she smiled and leave the ceremony.
The gentleman realized what he did and looked at her in astonishment.

Don’t judge immediately, share love and give respect. Should not insult anyone who close to you atleast.

Successful people always do forgive those who insult them. They prove through their tremendous success.

The purpose behind two ears and one mouth.

Have you ever realized, why everyone in this world have two ears, one mouth, two eyes.There is a purpose for having two ears and one mouth…. Yes, there is a purpose for making a great communication . There is purpose between every single thing. I would say, off course it’s a biological process of creation with particular purpose.The fact or the purpose is…

We have two ears to listen twice and speak once.

A communication can be result oriented when communicating operators means senders and receivers are exchanging informations in right way.

There are two types of people like few of them start questioning before observing the things and the others never ever questioned about the things. The entire topic about the second category people.In second category, most think they know exactly everything and strictly care about criticism.

Don’t be the introverted person when you see there is a golden purpose.

What you can do….

Being social is the most appropriate way to survive nowadays. Why??

  • Make us to fit anywhere in any conversation . Yes, being introverted person can be quite difficult to make it happen. But once you did it, you can see how beautiful the world is. Once you master in this, no matter how strong personality is standing in front of you, you will approach and say, ” Hello!!! Sir, How are you? ” Just try this.
  • Make friends or join community. I think, this is kind of very easy nowadays because of social media like Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram or in whatsapp, viber. Just download and start. Try to open up your personality in front of whole world.
  • Now, you are out of your box… You become a social person. You can share your thoughts, experiences or whatever you like to share.
  • Be friendly according to circumstances , you become a good person in someone’s eyes. You aren’t a introverted person now.
  • Learn from anyone about anything Learners never judge the circumstances, learners always prefer to learn from anyone about anything. Don’t be hesitate to ask.
  • Go party or do charity…. Whatever, it’s upto you.. Do something good for you …. But came out from that cubicles. Listen to the people what’s going on there.
  • Give value to other’s feelings. Never ever play with someone feelings. Respect their opinions if it’s valuable, share opinion if it make sense.

Please approach. Greet them. Make conversation, listen them first , respond them. Remember one thing, everyone carrying something good.. Learn what make them good.. .. Make a memorable conversation. Don’t expect too much but don’t forget to keep a link, let people know you exist… Can develop your social image. Greet with the magic words, ” Hi! How are you!! ‘ and don’t forget to smile always.

If You can leave your mark there… you can be the special one.

A genuine smile in your face can make someone smile automatically. It feels great.

I am not against on introverted person but I believe to be more social. Everyday I met someone new or contact someone who I don’t know….. Make me happier because I think being together with others make more stronger.

But in the time of something completely personal to the life, you should do it in the exact personal way. You know, what I mean.

Smile always.. Make a new friend.

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Time will talk if you don’t talk with the time.

How you talk with the time, it reflects in your all decisions. Most of the time, Decisions aren’t tough, leading the decisions with great attitude can make you more successful.

Talking with the time, means utilizing the time so perfectly, that time would be your perfect mentor and a challenging core value of entire lifetime.

Just go for it… Keep talking with time

Everything has it’s own time….. It’s true. Don’t be frustrated so much that you forget to understand, how much time you have been wasted since you are frustrated. Normal people never dance when they sleep, it’s possible in dream only. We all know what to do.. Or what make us dream achiever. But what we don’t practice…. It’s talking with the time. It’s Discipline. We are extremely casual…. Don’t aware of this. It’s quite hard to maintain our daily busy schedules nowadays. Everybody busy in their own life…. Don’t have time for family or for self improvement. Don’t have time to say, “Thank you” . We forget to apologize in right moment when it should be. Actually we forget, every second passes means we are going to die. So many things we forget to do until our last breathe.

Dream to success

If we dream to die successfully…. Then we should learn to live successfully.

Live each second

All your problems are not the problems actually , 99% coming from your lack of discipline. Please, don’t just alive………

Determine to live each second with passion. Who knows about tomorrow. Don’t waste any moment ….. Atleast talk with her. Time is the best friend beacuse she is always with you….. She never let you go.

Love her.. Kiss her… Stay in her heart.

Never forget, you are loosing time every day. Discipline your life to see you successful.

If you don’t do it now…. Tomorrow, you will suffering again in boring daily life. Do whatever you can do, how much you can do…. Just go for it……. Lead urself according to time And be a time talker.

Destination far away

Yes, You should a time talker

Thank you very much for your valuable time and your concentration. If you inspired, let’s inspire you beloved one also. Share as much as you can to everyone’s who need it or doesn’t. Spread positive vibe.

Take care everyone.

You are blessed for being surrounded by Negetive people.

If you think you still a need to grow up and then show the world, how much do you valued for everyone then need to generate your mind with positive attitude.

Talkers are always Negetive. Doers do belief in positive.

Believe to be the best

I see people doing their best but if there is criticism, then they failed. Every time they give up. Not even 5% people have confidence to stand up and say, let’s beat the critics. Saying it very simple but doing it, same like hell. How will you do that. Most people think that critics are bad people like to talk about you, make fun of you, spreading rumors about you. Most of all, here you do mistakes. You listened to them, support them to do that because you care too much about them, about yourself. This is the reason you never fulfilled your expectation. You never judge yourself, you allow them to do that.

They want to kill your passion.

Trust me, there’s criticism, means there is opportunity.

People do involve criticism, because they are the only ones who failed to make the most valuable quality of themselves. They love to talk about you because you are reflection of them who they want to be. Very few of us stay calm and say, “thank you” to their critics. Don’t afraid to move forward with the process of self-determination because of them. Your determination is yours. People talk to deep you down but when you are on the top of the mountain, you will the follower for them. Let them talk so much that you feel like you are the best productive person. You will be popular by them, also have you ever thought that in one way you do not need to do anything for that. If your brain said no to critics, train your heart to accept this. The only reason, criticism is necessary to fly high. Without them you are nothing. Remember when you last achieve something there was critics. Some of them was also fake supporters. You knew them and you make this achievement. How this happened then? Because you know that nobody in this world know about your greatness. Actually, you didn’t care about them in those particular time . But later on you realize that they are beneficial for your victory. So you blessed them. Remember one thing, pray to god not to help you instead you pray to send this critics in your life to make yourself establish.

Criticism is necessary

First of all, This is important …. self established…..self-made.

Criticism is necessary

Knowing you self made will be the most valuable quality of your personality. People talk yesterday, follow you today.

End result is always as sweet as heaven…. But you have to feel those things, need to imagine those precious things. Thanks those people, bless them, love them because now you are successful. Live your life with positive thoughts. That’s the only energy to make you rolemodel.

Thanks to Negetive for being so positive

Stay positive

Sharing thoughts doesn’t cost anything. Change in life is very important. Stay positive as much as you can. There is always a good time a bad time. We need both of them.

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