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Forgive those who insult you for being yourself.

Your words matter a lot but the right words matter most of all.

As Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam said,
People judge your face, not your greatness inside you.
This is soo true

Judgement is very necessary for our life but someone wrong judgement can bring great achievement. Yes, This is not rare for someone who succeed after lot of rejections.

No matter,how much orginal you are… But the matter is today’s world like you to show up as they like you to see.

A simple story I want to share….

This is a story of girl who never want her to give up easily. She never thought this will happen to her life. The girl was belong to middle class family, struggling hard for her family and her future. Fortunately, her relatives are all self made. They were very much established in their own life. Oneday this girl’s family got invitations from a rich family to attend a family ceremon of anniversary . So, the girl’s family reached there. Everyone was very excited, happy. Suddenly, a gentleman unexpectedly ordered the girl to stay away from photography spot because the camera men was making vedio of entire ceremony. The girl was not dressed up in highly fashionable clothes.

Obviously, the girl was completely disappointed to understand the scenario.
She did that time as she had been ordered to stay back. She promised herself that she would never be there unless she self-made,unless she become someone who can effort high demand lifestyle.

After 10 years, the girl got appointed in a merchant company where she became the General Manager after 5 years of relentless hard work.

Oneday she got an invitation. The ceremony of anniversary, this time was quite different.
The girl again dressed up very simple way as she like always. She looked pretty beautiful.
This time, the gentleman called her to join with them in the time of photo session. But she refused and said, “I am sorry, sir.I am not well dressed like your standard. It can make you feel insulted. Today, I came here to appreciate you for what you did that day. So, Thank you”. Then she smiled and leave the ceremony.
The gentleman realized what he did and looked at her in astonishment.

Don’t judge immediately, share love and give respect. Should not insult anyone who close to you atleast.
Successful people always do forgive those who insult them. They prove through their tremendous success.

Piece of bread, category of considerations.

Who said you can learn only from the books. If we want to learn, then a piece of bread also can tell most valuable things. In this life, we always complain… Sometimes this brings arguments…. What we have? Simply.. Always try Show up people that how big we are. Then the unaware kind of things take place We forget the original version of ourselves.

Yes, today’s topic is all about that.

A piece of bread can be eaten with butter, with main course or anything people prefer to eat with. Options there to make it more delicious and enjoyable dinner.

The same bread can be eaten without anything if you really hungry. No other options there, but you believe you can eat it without anything delightful. Rest of dinner must be thrown to the dustin.

Who knows the same bread can not possible to have for lot of people because they can’t effort this or some other poor conditions.

Three conditions here can tell us three important things..

Always take care of your wealth, if you have more… then just don’t waste it. If you have extra.. then share with others. Help people in any way. Trust me……. It feels great.
Only your believe system can make you feel satisfied, no one in this world or anything can make you satisfied unless you believe. A piece of bread can be eaten without anything.
If you addicted to grow, want to have those things in your life which you straggling for, please keep on struggling. Remember, oneday you can enjoy the bread with lot of delicious dishes… But do not waste it. Keep hope.
You know the pain of hunger, please help to others or share with others. Who knows, oneday you may have to ask them for something.

Respect those everything that you’ve, only sharing can possibly make you great.

You are blessed for what you have, because who knows someone dream about life you live in.
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Please don’t waste food.

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The purpose behind two ears and one mouth.

Have you ever realized, why everyone in this world have two ears, one mouth, two eyes.There is a purpose for having two ears and one mouth…. Yes, there is a purpose for making a great communication . There is purpose between every single thing. I would say, off course it’s a biological process of creation with particular purpose.The fact or the purpose is…

We have two ears to listen twice and speak once.

A communication can be result oriented when communicating operators means senders and receivers are exchanging informations in right way.

There are two types of people like few of them start questioning before observing the things and the others never ever questioned about the things. The entire topic about the second category people.In second category, most think they know exactly everything and strictly care about criticism.

Don’t be the introverted person when you see there is a golden purpose.

What you can do….

Being social is the most appropriate way to survive nowadays. Why??

Make us to fit anywhere in any conversation . Yes, being introverted person can be quite difficult to make it happen. But once you did it, you can see how beautiful the world is. Once you master in this, no matter how strong personality is standing in front of you, you will approach and say, ” Hello!!! Sir, How are you? ” Just try this.
Make friends or join community. I think, this is kind of very easy nowadays because of social media like Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram or in whatsapp, viber. Just download and start. Try to open up your personality in front of whole world.

Now, you are out of your box… You become a social person. You can share your thoughts, experiences or whatever you like to share.
Be friendly according to circumstances , you become a good person in someone’s eyes. You aren’t a introverted person now.
Learn from anyone about anything Learners never judge the circumstances, learners always prefer to learn from anyone about anything. Don’t be hesitate to ask.
Go party or do charity…. Whatever, it’s upto you.. Do something good for you …. But came out from that cubicles. Listen to the people what’s going on there.
Give value to other’s feelings. Never ever play with someone feelings. Respect their opinions if it’s valuable, share opinion if it make sense.

Please approach. Greet them. Make conversation, listen them first , respond them. Remember one thing, everyone carrying something good.. Learn what make them good.. .. Make a memorable conversation. Don’t expect too much but don’t forget to keep a link, let people know you exist… Can develop your social image. Greet with the magic words, ” Hi! How are you!! ‘ and don’t forget to smile always.

If You can leave your mark there… you can be the special one.

A genuine smile in your face can make someone smile automatically. It feels great.

I am not against on introverted person but I believe to be more social. Everyday I met someone new or contact someone who I don’t know….. Make me happier because I think being together with others make more stronger.

But in the time of something completely personal to the life, you should do it in the exact personal way. You know, what I mean.

Smile always.. Make a new friend.

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Sometimes legends use to stop …. For this.

There are too many things we can inspired ourselves from animals. Each animal has there own unique behavior which defines them who they are. Let me tell you something. It’s been a long time, I saw a picture in social media. Suddenly, it’s came to my mind. I thought to share with you. Oh yes! unfortunately I don’t have this picture but I had learned a great lesson from that.

Its make me write a small story. The story is like this.

There was a competition in jungle among all animals. The competition was about who can run fast.The prize also was very highly expensive . Also it was been declared that there was no such terms and conditions for participation. Anyone can participate. So, all willing participants were highly welcomed.

When the right time came for this, the ground was highly occupied with the audiences . Every enthusiastic characters were ready, then the cheetah entered. Now, as we know the best fastest runner in jungle is cheetah. So, All competitor were sooo afraid that some of them decided to gave up also. Most of the competitors were wilddogs, foxes and hyenas. When the referee whistled, all the participants ran as fast as possible . Each of the participants were running, no one looked back……. .finally they completed the race successfully , the wilddog won the competition …….. Then the most wonderful thing happened.

They saw the cheetah was standing on that same place means the same starting point where everyone started the race. Everyone from the audiences and also participants were undoubtedly astonished.

The all from the audiences, except the dogs were celebrating their win rather than understanding the unexpected behavior of the cheetah. The fastest runner from the jungle who can ran approx 80 mile/hr, he did quit being the fastest participant of that race. Why he did that……

Let’s come to the conclusion :-

There are lessons to learn from this story.

Do not need to show up your talent in everywhere,being the best performer among all team members.. you should stop. Sometimes, you should pass the chances …. And keep learning from others way of performing.

You have self respect, nobody has care for you. But you should not forget the truth about yourself…… Your competitors should in the same level. They should be strong enough like you. You can play with kid but a real competition called when competitor determined to see you fail. That’s the only time you can cheer up with all your heart when you won the trophy.
You know who you are.

This story is all about the leadership and self development,it’s my humble request that please don’t take this massage inappropriate way.

We do respect each and every animals. They all have their own valuable qualities which are completely unique from others.

A beast with positive attitude can be better than human but human with negetive thoughts always become a dangerous beast.

If I am not wrong, you surely understand the conclusion.

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Remain same … Does not bring growth.

Are you the same person, you were a moment before you see this post. I don’t think so. You are probably the only one who can understand…. What a valuable topic I am going to share with you right now.

Yes, it’s about new learning. A learning towards your destination, success for everytime.

Tell me one thing, do you believe that you are genious… If so, you may also know what’s make you genius. Do you believe that you are happiest person you ever know… .. If no then I have the answer for you. The answer is you are happy just because you have minimum requirements in your life and you fulfilled maximum of these. You are saying that you happy……….. Are you?seriously!!!!!

I know you are not happy if so you are not supposed to continue with this topic that how, you will be one of the great person. The problem is we don’t like to learn new things, met new people, try something new because we are happy. But if you deeply think of it, you are going backwards. The process of changing worlds is so fast, today for what you have been known for, tomorrow there will be no value of it. Learn more so that you can survive your existence . I know you are great, but what if, you are calling to be the greatest person. What if, people say you tomorrow….. You have talent to do multiple task. You will feel extremely excited, isn’t it!!!So,be happy what you have but keep learning new so you can manage your own dignity oneday.

Wake up…… Plan your day. Plan every single minute of your day to achieve a new level. Practice harder to experience more capabilities, practice harder to polish your reality, practice harder for more authority, practice harder to learn and learn and learn..and then you will be always ready for any challenges.

You are not the same person just a minute before, you changed…… You are not the same… Remember, you are in competition with the those great competitors who want you to see fail.. fail… if you are remain the same after win the war it means you are not the right king of your kingdom. Be so strong, others will afraid to think about you. When you will be in the battle of your lifetime achievement, your competitors will do surrender. Yes, you got it. This happen not because you are strong, but because you know multiple skills to deep them down and your winning attitude is outstanding.

Everything remains the same, unless you try new things , every time you learn new things…. every time you become more genius. This world needs genius people like you .
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10 Specific ways of appreciating yourself

Appreciating someone in the right moment which is the most effective ways to give compliments.
Truely appreciated

A minimum courtesy, we must do when we need to thank someone, say “Thank you….” It’s called appreciation. A genuine smile and and say thank you is more than enough. Thanking others is the most valuable quality of positive personality carries. So, don’t afraid to thank someone in eachtime you feel to thank him/her. Not only others but also you must appreciate yourself. Like I do. Each time I achieve something, the first thing I do…… I appreciate myself. It’s very much important.

Let’s talk about this….

1.Came out from the cubicle

Don’t stuck into the things every time. Take break and check how long have been stuck. Taking small break is always great. Leave the desk and came out from the cabin, give smile to all and say, ‘wow….. What a great day’. See the magic of changing the moment, you always want.

2. Treat with wine

Don’t be addicted alcohol, but I believe celebration with wine is more appropriate way. Keep your favorite wine beside your desk,have sip of Merlot and say, ” Woww.. It’s the best moment”. Say thank you to yourself for deserve this absolutely amazing moment. Feel the moment rather than only having it.

3.Who does like to wait for gift

Do you feel excited when you got gift from someone.Offcourse, you do. Why don’t you give gift to youself where all preferences will be accept. Reach each of goal and win your own gift, who will stop you doing that. You are the reflection of your dream itself… The more you happy the more you get success.

4.Are you a lover

Do you believe in love if so what are you waiting for? Go and hang out with your beloved one. The most lovable way is go for candlelight when sun goes down. Share your achievements with her and say thanks to her for always supporting you. I challenge you, that dine will be in heaven.

5.Have you ever kissed

Have you kiss your mind yet. Sounds impossible but trust me you can do it. Just close your eyes and give a smooch to your most favorite thing.. close to your heart. You kiss your mind now…..you must appreciate your choice.

6.Family first

Family should first priority for everyone. Every time you fall into trouble, there is your family to help you out, so celebrate your most valuable time with family. Share your feelings and treat them with their favorite preference. Thank them for being with you always. Smile on their face will be your most valuable achievement.

7.Cook what I like

Any body can cook. Depending how much do you really want to cook your favorite dish. My favorite is Simple Tuna salad, Margharita pizza,Eggs Florentine and Chocolate lava cake.

8 Let’s tour

Pack up your bags.. Let’s get visit to favourite destinations. Take pictures and frame it for lifetime. Eachtime you will see those frame, you’ll feel proud of yourself. Not just because you visit there, also because of made it happened. People will be inspired when they will see you to do it again again.

9.Buy your wish

Well first of all, you can’t buy your dream but can buy those things coming in your dreams. Like we all are very much addicted to have those things, which are completely unique and full of greatness. Those things do have direct link to our emotions.Watch like Fossils, rolex and car like Mercedes-Benz, Jaguars . Who doesn’t have a minimum intention to have this things. It’s my wish to have those things, when I will really get success financially and I will celebrate in this way.

10.Thank yourself every time

Lastly I would say, the best way to appreciate yourself to sat thank you each time. No matter, how good is it or bad. But you should thank yourself for the every experience you are having in every moment. Imagine you will not exist tomorrow, life will finish like the rule of life. So, live your life in every possible way where you can get happiness and give happiness.

A true appreciation is called when you stand up and people genuinely smile at you, staring at you, pray for you, and love you.
I believe this personally.

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