Childhood guidelines. The guidelines for Parents.
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May god bless you and keep you in the right direction of your life. Always smile and be happy. Moving forward today want to say about something really need to change in our sophisticated daily life. Please don’t take it serious if you would be the part of it. This topic is for those innocent children who has been dominated since years after years. This is the topic for those parents who never understand the difference between the expectation and domination. A good quality can destroy because of people.Like ,A very quiet and shy student used to get good marks in written exams but he/she afraid to confess the challenges when face public stage.Like in the middle of the class ,this kind of student cant able to answer the teachers questions most of the time but written exam score board is excellent.What others will think is pretty much important than the answer itself.Everyone knows that it’s very much easy to answer.Why then he/she failed to give the respond the teacher. Now he/she become the main part of entertainment in this class.Everyday he/she comes to the school and in everywhere too much depressed to talk about his situation,not even to the parents also.He/she failed in the exam.Each one of this sophisticated world ,very few support,stand by them.Somehow some of these students realize what are the hidden greatness of being tough.Once they notice this ,they start to move forward with being tough attitude.They never look back,they succeed.
This is kind of the problem each of us had experience in our childhood day,even in graduation.Not only in school…in everywhere ……life is the stage where you are the actor. From everywhere we got feedback of our acting.Some said good and some said bad,most importantly life is not changed then also.You remain same.We often think people judgement is the best because they are the people,too many brains in one direction.But we forget those too many brains are giving opinion together to deep down the best competitors of their way to success.This can be happens to the child,students or parents themselves.
Tell me ,how many of us really think our child is the best,how many of us think that he/she has creativity. We beleive in institutional qualifications rather than mentally.We send them to well known schools where we can show up our lifestyle.Education of the child does not matter.We don’t beleive them first, then how they can believe in the world.We never given chance to them to talk about family matters,in the middle of everyone he/she never speaks. The reason you say …they have small experience,they are kid.But have you ever realized the stage in home is fully oppupied,there is no chance for those little actor to perform.They feel insecure,they doubt their knowledge and their intense of going backward starts here.They got rejection so many times,they doubt their own thoughts. They failed in every confession they tried for.They are suffering due to lack of confidence.
This is not the time to blame all others,but to blame those mentors of their life who says,they care about them.This caring was acting of care with true purpose behind.
.They grow up but still failed in every challenges of their life .We always blame them but never and support them mentally.We expect from those little ones more than their ability.
But There are too many parents who think positive to support their children, they read the exact mind of their children… Hopefully you are also one of them if you are a mom or dad. The world is changing faster than any other era. Let them do what they want to do, don’t just be the shadow of themselves.
Try to be the best friends , not the parents. Let them open up their mind,see how good they are. Don’t believe in institutional education, educate them to make their own institution. Their education should be represent them as the better human being.Educate them so that they can educate others tomorrow,I challenge you will proud that day… Let’s change the future, live with positive vibe.
You can give a lesson when you have this lesson before. You can change the world if you let them go forward.
Keep blessings them and loving them.
Do you believe in what I said, if so please, you can share this to the friends, please stop humiliate the simplicity of our future.
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